Thursday, September 30, 2021

The tree

My house came with a pair of trees in the back yard. One was a small red maple. The other was a large white maple. A gigantic, absolute monster of a tree. It was actually four trees that sprouted (or were planted) right next to each other. It was twice as tall as my house, and covered my yard. (It went well over the fence on each side, and stretched most of the length of the backyard)

I said was because I had it taken down a few weeks ago. 

On the outside, it looked healthy. Something felt off, though. The massive trunks swayed a little too much when the wind blew. The giant branches that occasionally came crashing down had no clear origin. (Seriously, I couldn't tell where they came off from) And they were big enough to cause damage. So down it went.

As the crew was chopping and hauling, I saw that some of the trunks were hollow. Others made an unsettlingly hollow clunking sound instead of a solidly reassuring thunk

When it came down, I felt both sad and relieved. The entire atmosphere of the back yard has changed. The stump was ground down a week later (the one they brought that day was too small) and a landscaper came by a couple days ago to grade and seed it. It's late in the season, so I don't expect the grass to fill this year. My dear wife wasn't happy to see it go. It could probably have lasted a few more years before it became a problem, but seeing the condition it was put me at ease. That tree wasn't going to last much longer, and the size of it, honestly if it hit my house it could have crashed right through the roof.

What I'm not going to miss? Taking care of the leaves. That thing held on until the end of November, then dropped them all in a single weekend. It was insane.

Wednesday, September 29, 2021

Caffeine

Ok I gotta tell you, weaning myself off caffeine is not easy. Oh sure, I've done it before, but then as my poor choices kick in again and I find myself unable to get up in the morning without it.

Could be worse, but I digress.

My blood pressure is through the roof, fairly proportional to my caffeine intake. So I need to cut the stuff out. 

When last I worked nights, I got out of bed by taking a dose of Excedrin with a bottle of Coke. Then I'd put myself to bed with melatonin and Advil PM. When I left that job, I flipped from being awake nights to days by simply going cold turkey. When my body was expecting the wakey wakey drugs, nothing would come and I would crash. When my brain likewise expected the sleep juice, it never came and I was wired.

All in all, it was a pretty quick way to cut my trips to the pharmacy.

That was six years ago, and my phenomenal lack of discipline is always coming back to haunt me.

Monday, September 20, 2021

The day of birth

My third born child turned 8 today. He's a behemoth, in the 90th percentile for height and weight (he's not fat, this kid is all muscle). He wears costumes all the time. Today he dressed like a pirate in school. We typically don't let the kids play video games on school days, except on a birthday. He wanted everyone to have game time, not just himself. 

He's constantly building things. I have to find building kits before he starts dismantling things around the house for parts. My workshop is littered with the remains of various projects. He's convinced I'm a genius because I know what tool to use for different jobs.

It's been less than 2 weeks and he has conquered the third grade.

Thursday, September 16, 2021

School again

School started again last week Thursday. (I know, who starts school on a Thursday?) I'm still only going to work one and a half days a week, Monday and half of Tuesday. 

Nobody is buying airplanes right now, but whatever.

Thursday, we walked the kids to school. My oldest is now in the middle school, which fortunately is right next door to the elementary school (they share a parking lot) and has a start time difference of only fifteen minutes. After dropping them off, the wife and I went on a date.

We went on a date. We explored a previously unvisited park, went out to lunch, then went home and just did nothing. We basked in the quiet. 

Friday, after dropping off the kids she went out with my sister in law (both women married into the same family, they can commiserate). I didn't have anything planned, so I found myself home alone, with nothing to do.

So I took a nap.

Tuesday, September 7, 2021

More and more camping

Last week we had our final camping trip of the summer, packing it in at Moreau Lake State Park. We picked it because we had never been there.

It wasn't that impressive. Nothing unique that would draw us back. It's fine, but.. meh.

Bringing the kids camping is an interesting experience. They understand that there are no video games. No Netflix. As much as they express themselves on the subject, they just roll with it. They just become different people when we're out on an adventure.

But of course, school starts this week. I suppose they haven't realized that life is an adventure.